CBL#160 - Seeing the Beautiful You with Leta Greene

Have you fallen prey to the classic traps of beauty? What you see on magazine covers and TV is not beauty. My guest, Leta Greene, has a powerful message about beauty and feeding the goodness in life. What do you want to feed in your life…anger, sadness, happiness, love? Her story of losing her baby girl opened her up to the knowledge that goodness and sadness live next to each other within. She chose to honor her daughter and other children and feed the goodness in life. Listen in below to her powerful and profound story. 

Coach Betty Louise wants to you feed pleasure. Hedonophobia is the Greek word meaning "fear of pleasure." The feeling of guilt from deriving pleasure while others are suffering. As Leta and Coach Betty Louise point out…we help the entire world by feeding the pleasure and goodness. Click listen below to hear the whole show. Love to hear what you think!

As a truckers daughter she learned the ins and outs of the beauty industry from the outside in! How does the shy tomboy become a confident beauty expert? Leta not only gives you the tools she has learned but has shared with thousands of clients to help them discover the power of their own unique beauty.   Her approach to beauty goes past makeup, clothes and body stance it goes to the heart, the heart and mind of those she works  with.  More than a speaker on beauty and image she speaks on life.  How to deal with tragedy, change and making commitments to self through goal setting that works! Founding Glamour Connection® in 2000 an image consulting and makeup application company. She is honored to be one of the most influential women of SeneGence International.   She speaks regularly at company events as a trainer, motivator and sales strategist.  Also a member of the National Speaker Association.  Leta is an international speaker recently travelling to Armenia and soon to Gambia.  She considers her greatest accomplishment to be that her children and husband still like her!

To win the FREE 75 minute "Seeing the Beautiful You" coaching session with Leta, email her (see below) with "Coach Betty Offer" in subject line.

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ARTICLE - BEing Thankful for Your Beautiful Body

A song’s lyrics contain the line…“My body is the temple of my spirit.” 

Is it true? 
 
As someone who lives with a health condition that causes physical pain to my body, it is a harsh reality for me to face. Is my spirit in pain? Yes, it is. Do I create my own pain and self-hatred? Not consciously, but I most definitely have a role in it. We must be aware and conscious before we can change.
 
Okay, my situation is rather unique because I feel the pain physically in my body. The condition I was diagnosed with manifests as an overactive immune system, my body is attacking the cartilage, ligaments, tendons and muscles around the joints. My body is literally attacking itself…it is not a stretch to say that it is a physical form of self-hatred. 
 
Mine may be physical and obvious, however most women suffer from body self-hatred. Yes, it is a strong phrase, and there is a strong need to accept the truth of it so it can change. How can we deny this truth when the following startling statistics from the “International Journal of Eating Disorders,” show how early we are trained to find something wrong with our bodies?
 
*Among children in grades 1-3, 42% want to be thinner
*Among 11-13 year old girls, more than 50% believe they are overweight
*More than 10% of teenage girls report binge eating at least once a week
*More than 90% of college women in the mid-90s had attempted to control their weight through diets
*80% of US women do not like how they look
*Approximately 1 in 100 women in the US binge and purge in order to lose weight
 
What are some of the repercussions of this phenomenon in our world?
 
*low self-esteem and self-worth in women
*women set themselves up for failure by comparing their bodies to models on magazine covers (the average US woman is 5’4” tall and weighs 140 lbs while the average model is 5’11” and weighs 117 lbs)
*women have a happiness deficit because they don’t feel good in their own skin
*women have a difficult time feeling sexually and being present with their partners because they are too worried about how they look naked
*women have a difficult time achieving orgasm 
*men don’t understand women’s body issues, and don’t know how to help
*women wait until men find them attractive
*women relinquish their natural role in choosing mates 
 
These repercussions have a negative impact on our planet. If women do not feel happy with their bodies, they do not find their relationships fulfilling and satisfying. It is hard for a man to feel happy when a woman feels that way about herself. When women are feeling their beauty and sexuality, they can literally breathe with the earth. 
 
How can we bring the beauty back? How can we encourage our children to look within to their beautiful souls for how they feel, and not their outer appearance? What is the role of the woman in this journey back? What is the role of the man? In future articles, I will explore these curious questions.
 
For now, during this Thanksgiving time of year in the US, I am inviting women to BE Thankful for your body and how it has served you throughout your life: the pleasures, the pains, the glories, the defeats. Feel grateful for ALL of it, as all of your experiences have led you to this point in your life. 
 
And I invite all mindful men to appreciate something about a woman’s body…maybe say, “Honey, you look really beautiful today.” Simple, yet so powerful.
 
A woman who loves her body is one of the juiciest energy vibrations on the planet!