Monthly Archives: February 2011

WHOA Baby #8 - Living with Positive and Abundant Energy

  By Admin | February 23, 2011 - 11:45 am |
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Here is a quote from the website TheSensualLife.com.

“Orgasm is the basis of all life. It is the most powerful energy that lives within every single one of us, and between us when we come together in sensual relationships. In popular culture, we have labeled the climax of a sexual experience an “orgasm” – and yet, orgasmic energy is much more expansive, available and abundant than in just these moments. Our ability to feel pleasure, sensation, connection, awareness and love is endless when we enter the gateway of our orgasm.”

I add this as a WHOA Baby because many in our culture think about the word orgasm as a private and intimate act which should not be discussed in broad daylight. Words will trigger emotions. When you have an emotional reaction to a word, often the intention of the speaker or author is lost because your brain needs to process the emotion. The next time you hear or read the word orgasm, take a deep breath and smile. See if you can feel the positive and abundant nature of it.

I love this quote as it reinforces the fact that orgasmic energy is available to us far beyond the bedroom. Could you use some extra positive energy in your life? Well guess what…you’ve got it right there inside you.

Thank you Monica Day, of TheSensualLife.com, for your visionary approach to our innate positive and abundant orgasmic energy.

 

 

WHOA Baby#7: Anti-aging aspect of Sex

  By Admin | February 16, 2011 - 1:09 pm |
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I am stunned and amazed with all I am learning about the health benefits of having regular sex. NOTE: I am talking about healthy, loving and consensual sex.

This is just in from Scotland, Edinburgh Hospital.

Dr. David Weeks studied 3,500 Americans and Europeans from ages 18-102, and found that only 25% of youthful looks is due to genetics. The rest of youthful looks is related to behavior. When he examined sexual behavior, he reports that having sex 3 times a week can make you look a decade younger.

Check out the whole article, Vitamin S: Monogamous, Safe Sex a Super Potent Package of Health Boosting Effects.

Sex as a healing modality is ancient wisdom, and also available to us without cost. We carry this healing power around with us wherever we go.

First step to fabulous sex is to fall in love with yourself!

Try this experiment:

Pause, Look in the Mirror, and ask “Who Loves Ya Baby?”

CBL#117 - Spiritual Sexuality with Ina “Laughing Winds”

  By Admin | February 15, 2011 - 3:17 pm | ,
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My special guest on CoachBettyLIVE is Ina “Laughing Winds” Mlekush, who speaks to us about the ancient Native American traditions concerning the healing powers of orgasm and sex. As soon as you hear her voice, you can feel her wisdom. “Human Beings are created to have pleasure,” says Ina. Her approach to beginning to get comfortable with self-pleasuring is beautiful and gentle. Listen to the whole interview, and show below.

Ina has been in private practice since 1985 as a Marriage Counselor for Traditional Marriages and Alternative Lifestyles. Since 1992 she has focused on Sex Therapy, Relationship Solutions and Dating Consultation for Couples and Individuals. Issues that are prevalent are: resolving the frustrations of sexual dysfunctions, incompatibility, stepping back into being sexual after years of celibacy or improving intimacy skills.

Ina helps individuals understand that Sex Education goes beyond the bedroom. It is your life force energy, which promotes health and longevity. It is what gives you the energy to be parents, run a business, have a social life and still want – to - be passionate with your partner.

She teaches men and women about their basic instinctual differences and how to communicate respectfully with each other. They learn how to rejoice in those differences and to discover caring ways to live together and make good agreements. With good agreements their sense of hope awakens, which supports a healthy intimate relationship. The Grandmother Elders say, Men and woman are different and equal. To learn more about Ina and ask her your questions, go to TalkToIna.com.

How can you administer your own self-pleasuring medicine?, LISTEN HERE...coachbetty21511.

Coach Betty will be on a short hiatus from broadcasting, building her sponsorship structure so she can return to high quality programming which reaches far and wide.

Stay tuned to a new teleseries coming soon: The 5 Ps to peace, passion and pleasure.

WHOA Baby #6: Is it true that Menopause is a Sex Drive Killer?

  By Admin | February 9, 2011 - 10:09 am |
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How do women continue to live the Organic and Orgasmic life going through menopause?

Here are survey results from WebMD newsletter on women and menopause.

“About half of women report reduced sex drive around the time of menopause, even though they believe it important to maintain an active sex life. Menopausal symptoms, such as vaginal dryness and pain during sex, may make sex less comfortable. But the hormonal changes of menopause are only part of the picture. An aging woman concerned about her sex drive should also consider the quality of her relationship, her body image and self esteem, medications she is taking, and her physical health.”

What do you hear when you read this? What I hear and the reason it made it as one of my WHOA Babies is that women need to fall in love with themselves to continue their sex drive through the ages. Vaginal dryness may occur, and I believe does occur because that is what we are told time and time again. I am here to tell you that it has not been my experience in menopause. I have gotten juicier as I have aged because I understand my body and the power of it.

It’s February and the month we focus on LOVE. My request to you is to make it about self-love, not relationship love. You may have heard me say it before…LOOK YOURSELF IN THE MIRROR EVERYDAY AND SAY “I LOVE YOU, I REALLY REALLY DO.” Everyday for the rest of the month…try it ladies. When we have inner happiness and peace, guess what…everyone around us is more at peace and happy.

Stay tuned to learn more about my teleseminar on Peace, Passion and Pleasure coming soon. It will be chocked full of ideas and ways for women to fall in love with themselves every time they look in the mirror!

CBL#116 - Valeri Bocage on Actualizing Your Dream

  By Admin | February 8, 2011 - 3:25 pm | ,
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Is there a dream in you that you would like to bring to life? Are you waiting for the right time, more time, or more money? Valeri Bocage empowers you to get clear about your purpose, how to break through barriers and be powerful & graceful in the face of any circumstance or challenge. You’ll learn keys to mastering your strengths and how to bring out your Inner Leader. Listen to Coach Betty and Valeri talk about how to recognize your feminine power…it lives within you organically and orgasmically.
Coach Betty challenges some statements about menopause and how it affects your sex life. Do menopausal women really have more vaginal dryness? Listen in for a new view on the subject.

Valeri Bocage is the founder of Powerful Women International and has been assisting people in living their dreams for over 20 years. She has inspired hundreds of people to fulfill on their life’s mission. She has coached authors, entrepreneurs, parents, families, public speakers and artists to expand their vision for what was possible in their professional and personal lives globally. She has been recognized by the United States Congress, Senate, Mayor Offices and several companies and organizations around the world.

Valeri was born and raised in New Orleans, LA. As a result of Hurricane Katrina, Valeri lost EVERYTHING, except her indomitable spirit and true passion for life. She took the loss as an opportunity to start a whole new life. She moved to San Francisco to fulfill on her dream of “EMPOWERING WOMEN TO EMPOWER THE WORLD.” Powerful Women International is doing just that. Now, only a few years later PWI has more than 30 connections around the world.

To learn more or become a member of PWI, check out PowerfulWomenIntl.com.

Listen the CoachBettyLIVE with Valeri Bocage here: coachbetty2811

WHOA Baby#5: Making Fraud Organic and Orgasmic

  By Admin | February 2, 2011 - 12:05 pm |
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As promised, I am writing today to share more about my fraud experience in the hopes that it can save someone else from going through this very humiliating process. The data on fraud surprised me, and became a WHOA Baby.

“Fraud is considered white collar crime. An Illinois survey shows that 55.2% said that fraud crimes do more to undermine the morality of society than street crimes. More money is lost through white collar crime than as a result of street crime. National survey of fraud victimization show the total annual losses exceed $40 billion.”

This is from a report “Personal Fraud: the victims and the scams,” by Richard Titus of the National Institute of Justice.

Why did I get victimized? What I have reflected upon is as follows:

1) I was careless…my message is one that I believe anything is possible. I believe in miracles and was convinced it was my time to receive one. Because of that I did not thoroughly investigate the sources offering me this incredible opportunity.

2) I am not aware of these scams as I rarely listen to news. I stopped watching news regularly as a means to stay more positive, and create a healthy and uplifting world for myself.

3) I was susceptible to this offer because it touched me so deeply in my heart. The thought that I could be paid well to coach small groups of people who do not have access to such services was a miracle I wanted to believe in.

4) I am a risk taker, and therefore even more susceptible to these crimes.

5) Scams like this play on a person’s compassion and generosity and I fell for it hook, line and sinker, as they say.

6) Shocking, but true, 10-20% of people victimized in this way have chronic health problems and those vulnerable are the best targets.

WHAT TO DO IF YOU SUSPECT FRAUD:

1) Do your due diligence in investigating those in question. Call and speak to a live person, look at websites, get name, address, phone numbers.

2) DO NOT accept money orders. Tell them to make a wire transfer right into your account.

3) Insist on US checks

4) Do not rely on your bank for the best information. IF you deposit checks or money orders, be specific when the checks will clear NOT when the money is available.

The Organic and Orgasmic nature of this is that I am not resisting the truth, and am authentically sharing the story. Life is rich and juicy in many ways!

If this information helps 1 person…it will have been a good day!

CBL#115 - Mastering YOUR Destiny with Olga Aura

  By Admin | February 1, 2011 - 2:42 pm | ,
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Today’s show covers some ground…makes sense because it is about taking Quantum Leaps. If you want to hear the secret to taking action in spite of doubt and fear and taking a Quantum Leap in your life in 2011, you will want to hear this interview. Olga shares her amazing story of how she arrived in the states in 1996 when she came to perform in the Olympics for the Ukraine team. She never got back on the bus. On the outside, she was a gold medalist and on the inside she was dying. She never even had her first menstrual cycle until she was 22. Listen below to how she mastered her own destiny, and became a mentor to others.

Coach Betty shares her experience of being caught in an internet fraud scam, and what she learned. To learn more about fraud and NOT being victimized to it, check out Richard Titen’s National Institute of Justice, “Personal Fraud: The Victims and the Scams.”

A Gold medal winning gymnast, Olga Aura is a Master Your Destiny Mentor. She has a laser beam vision for seeing instances of great destiny and the practical step-by-step system for you to Master your destiny. Whether you want to bring forth a babe, a book, a business or a beloved Olga’s Quantum Leap system guides you to reach your GOLD.
For over 25 years Olga honed her Quantum Leap methodology in the Soviet Olympic Reserve, then with the Tibetan monks, Peruvian medicine men and with hundreds of successful clients and students from all around the world. Now Olga is a proud CEO of her own visionary empire, and she is the author of the “5 Secrets to Unlock Your Irresistible Soul Power”.
You can find out more about Olga at IamFullyAlive.com.
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